08-12-2017, 03:29 PM
(08-12-2017, 03:17 PM)Mary Wrote:(08-12-2017, 03:09 PM)EmperorWhale Wrote: However much you might have changed, sometimes you just don't get second chances with people. Mistakes were made and there isn't always a way back. Personally I don't have an issue with you but others do and I don't think those that have a problem are going to change their mind ever. Honestly you should just move on
Let's be honest tho here Mr. Whale when you say "others do" as in they will always have a problem with him. In the past, and probably still now, people have developed these things called immature grudges and can't for the life of them, let go and just ignore the other person. They gotta talk shit, be a big man.
Taking that into consideration. A lot of drama will come from him coming back, and that's up to the staff to be able to deal with it once it gets out of hand. Nuggie says he can handle it, but come on. Some of these kids on here are vicious and obnoxious. (no offense guys, I'm just being truthful) So, keeping that in mind, it's not just a "Oh, I'll just deal with them alone" kind of thing. It spreads toxicity on the server and then OTHERS will get in trouble / banned because of their grudges.
Nuggie, you're being a bit selfish here. Yes, you can probably handle a fair amount of the insults and shit talking. But it WILL wear you down and you will either a) quit or b) go to a staff member. Then OTHERS on the server have to hear the insults, which will lead to a big argument if people stand up for you. Then MORE grudges will become of it because of the immaturity.
So, think to yourself. Is getting unbanned good for you, or good for the server?(cus les be honest, if you PM ppl about ur issues they just slap u ya know)
as I've stated, I would do all in my power to keep positive relations with all I can and enjoy myself. Mary, If I was in the sane position as I was a year ago mentally I would be concerned, but I know for a fact that nothing would happen. My entire lifestyle is about positivity at this point and spreading it. I would not do anything to spread drama or allow arguments to occur either. If others do, I don't really know what to say, I would ignore it personally and as stated would likely message them personally to try and mend any problems.
As for the server; I really don't feel like me returning would have as much as an explosive impact as most of you feel. With games recently I've barely made a presence. I play, however, often with no sound or microphone while watching shows on Netflix and such and just generally enjoying myself. Most people will honest to god not realize I'm even on the server. I also WANT to contribute to the server in order to help it, suggestion-wise and such.
I'm in no way attempting to be selfish against the general server. I just really really want to return... and I don't feel like it'd go as bad as some of you think.